Motherly Wisdom #24: There is a reason you don't have keys

Most children have keys to their parents house. Some of them don't; there is a reason for that. What is the reason? TRUST!

Just because she birthed you doesn't mean she trusts you. Why? Somewhere down the line, your LOST YOUR MIND. Lost it. Do you think she wants your empty body roaming around her house? There is no reason why MAMA should give you a set of keys, and then have to lock her bedroom door.

When you run the streets, stay there!

Another reason why you don't have keys, is because you trust everyone OUT THERE more than you RESPECT MAMA IN HERE. Yes there is a reason you don't' have keys. Mama doesn't want just ANYBODY IN HER HOUSE, and she can't trust YOU to respect that.

Now some of you do have keys. Why? Mama can trust you. Think about your life as you were growing up and you can really get an answer on why or why not, in regards to the keys.

There is always a REASON!


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama

Motherly Wisdom #23: The wife is submissive to the husband

Very short and to the point: WIVES YOU SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND ONLY. This is the husband that God sent, because your hubby is submitting and obeying GOD. This the husband that cleaves to you and leaves his parents. THIS IS THE HUSBAND THAT PUTS YOU SECOND TO GOD..not anyone else.

You don't submit to your parents, or HIS; you don't' put the KIDS FIRST or anyone else. 

Yes, you better stay on your knees, in prayer,  for your husband because you don't have time to play with God. Stay on your knees for your husband, because he needs you in the background to help him press through the front. Stay on your knees for your husband, because he is the head.

Your husband is the one God sent to take care of home, build you up and support you. Don't disrespect your husband or you'll be disrespecting God.


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama!

Motherly Wisdom #18: Stop Running from Your Mother

You will never win brownie points with God running from your mother. Why in the world do you keep running from instruction anyway?

What does the fourth commandment say? Honor Your father and MOTHER?  Come on now! If you want to die tomorrow, keep running. 

You don't have time question everything your parents say or do, unless it is against the word of God, unless you're ready to look death in the face. Stop running from your mother and what she's suggesting you do; give her honor, in UNDERSTANDING, and attempting to BE what GOD IS CALLING YOU TO BE, because that is what is COMING OUT OF YOUR MOTHER'S MOUTH! 

Parents are to show you the way. Yes, they may have made plenty of mistake along the way, but they dont' want you to make the same. Mothers love on you immensely, and try to keep you protected until they just can't, but even as mothers, we have to step back. There is no TOUGH LOVE in stepping back to the CHILD, it is more tough love ON THE MOTHER. 

Stop running and start realizing that your mother....means the best for you!

Dana Neal

Coach and Mama! 

Motherly Wisdome #14: Don't Use the Children

 Don't use the children against the other parent. The children understand everything at every age; they will really be upset with you later!

As a young mom, I would see other mothers use their children to get what they wanted from the dads. That was manipulation of the utmost, and spiritually, it's witchcraft. A great form of control, because women thought they had the upper hand. 

The problem with this is, the dad's got tired of being used. They either took custody or stopped coming around. Then, the kids would be upset with the Moms because they couldn't see their dads. 

I was never one to use my children to get at their dad. I don't have time, for what we called, kid games. That's a game you play, that you can't stop playing or you would always have pie on your face. 

I like to eat pie, not play with pie. 

Children see everything, hear everything, and then they learn how to play the game. Don't let them play it on you when they get older, so stop now!

Don't use YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT. 


Dana Neal
Coach and Mom 

Motherly Wisdom #13: No Baby Mama/Daddy Drama

Whether you are the Mom or the Dad: Don't be the one causing the drama. 

You have to be better than the other. If she has issues with your new relationship, don't feed into it. If he has issues with your living your life, don't feed into it. 

If she's on welfare, refusing to get a job, don't hold back child support. 
If he's not paying child support don't keep the child from him. 

Drama comes in when you get mad at the other for going on with their lives despite the child, or children you have together. Stop it! 

It should never be about the two of you EVER AGAIN now that your child is born! 



Dana Neal
Coach and Mom

Motherly Wisdom #1: Stay at Home

Sometimes you need to just stay at home with your kids. Truly! It may be the Christmas season, and you want to go visit others, but sometimes you need to stay at home with your own children. 

They need you to focus on them sometimes, instead of others. Those of us that go from house to house all the time, then we do it excessively around Thanksgiving and Christmas, are the ones that want to be seen. 

It is truly time out for WORRYING ABOUT PEOPLE; stay home from time to time. Take care of your house because it is absolutely necessary. At some point, you have to decide that you are not a teenager and you can't get around as much as you would like. At some point you have to grow up.

Now, I'm really reflecting on the people that are somewhere every weekend, then on Christmas they are in MORE PLACES. Sit down. Stay at home. Let your children get to know you and you them. 


Home is where the heart is; if you aren't home, neither is your HEART!

#catchthat 


Dana Neal
Coach and MAMA!!!

Oh, It's Christmas Time: For the Moms

Good morning Ladies! 

It has been quite a while, but we're determined to get through and press through! 

It has come to my attention that young adults are doing their best to remember their parents by the gifts they purchase. They feel that because its Christmas times, and moms like gifts, that its a great substitute for all the drama they caused all year. 

I don't think that was the real intent on why Jesus was born, but just flow with me here: THE CHILDREN DON'T HAVE THAT CONCEPT JUST RIGHT. It's Christmas time??

I"m still a young mom, even at 43, but I have noticed that my children take a different spin on things, than we did at their age. It is gift giving time, if you are into the commercialism, but the gifts, don't take away from the character and attitude of all year. I have 4 children (3 of my own, and one blended), and each one has their own attitude. Whether loving or emotional, angry or disrespectful, each child still receives love from their parents. (Me and my husband) 

It all goes in what they SAW as they were being raised. 

I think most of feel like, when you teach, you're telling, but as I get older, I see what I taught was what was seen. I'm thankful for being able to take care of them throughout their young lives, but I regret some choices I made that may have left a bad taste in their mouths. Oh yes, ITS CHRISTMAS TIME. 

For years, we didn't have a great Christmas, because of what was going on all year. Time has proven that the effects of that are hidden in our family. For you, if you see or feel the same, realize the error of ALL OF YOUR WAYS, and re-teach the things that are important. Moms, we are the cuddlers, the counselors, the teachers, the menders, etc in the lives of our children. Take some time right now to think over their lives, renew your commitment to them, and bring FAMILY BACK. 

Why? It's CHRISTMAS TIME! 

Dana M. Neal

Coach and Mom

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