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Tuesday, April 25, 2017

I'm not TOUGH as NAILS



I'm not.

I don't feel tough.




I feel squishy.

Kind of out of shape.

Speak what I think.

But I'm not TOUGH AS NAILS.

I am DANA WILLIAMSON. Just me. Just life. Just ministry. 

But I'm not TOUGH AS NAILS.










Can we answer what is TOUGH AS NAILS anyway:
(as) tough as nails. also (as) hard as nails. strong and very determined: She is a warm and friendly person, but she is also as tough as nails at work. (Definition of “(as) tough as nails” from the Cambridge Academic Content Dictionary © Cambridge University Press)

I can't even imagine why someone would say I'm tough as nails when my transparency is real and I am weak. Not weak in the sense I can't handle this but weak in the sense of HUMILITY. I am not tough as nails, but I am somebody. I am important to somebody. God didn't pull me out to put my in a rut. 
I'm tough, no, BUT Oh yes, IM STRONGER THAN YOU THINK. 

Nehemiah 8:10New King James Version (NKJV)

10 Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”

Joshua 1:7New King James Version (NKJV)

Only be strong and very courageous, that you may observe to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right hand or to the left, that you may prosper wherever you go.
I know the word. 
I don't curb the word. 
I don't lie about what I feel. 
I don't tell the devil everything. 
I AM DANA WILLIAMSON. 
I come from a family of entrepreneurs, ministry leaders, gun toters, criminals and B.A.D. WOMEN
Tough as Nails? No
Strong..Yes...I am somebody. 
You're not even invited to the table. 

“I am many things, stupid is not one of them.”
Olivia Pope, Scandal
They are a non-factor. Why are you worried? 

Thursday, March 16, 2017

Fast Cars and Slow Sex: Why slow sex?

Okay now we're at the day the LORD has made let us rejoice and be glad in it!

SEX, LIES, VIDEOTAPE

The lesson isn't in SLOW SEX..but why is it SEX?

See, I am a minister of the Gospel. (Remember?)
I am one that is always going to tell you what the word says.

When I started this three day series (today is the 3rd day), I shared with you that the lesson was in the title.

SEX...is not what it should be call between A MARRIED MAN AND A WOMAN.

YOU BETTER MAKE LOVE AND MAKE IT FAST OR SLOW.
Your house, your bed, your marriage, is YOUR BUSINESS, but it's not sex. When you become intimate with your husband you are sharing something SPIRITUAL with this man you love. You are exchanging touches, kisses, bodily fluids (be real, not a prude), and you are looking into the eyes of your husband and LOVING ON HIM.
It's LOVE. There is no if ands or buts about it.

What does this have to do with priorties?
If you go to bed with the intent of just having SEX, you already have a planned attack on your spouse and your marriage. Your proiorty is to get it done; slow or not.

Making love is slow. Sex is fast and unemtional.

Fast Cars and Slow sex......change your priorties and LIVE.

Dana Williamson
www.baddanamarie.com


Saturday, January 31, 2015

Ways to be B.A.D. 28: Remember, its not Religion, its RELATIONSHIP

This is real simple! The closer you get to God, that better your chances of understanding all the bad things that happen in your life.

What I mean is, before you go FALLING OFF THE CLIFF, because every thing is going wrong, you will go to the word of God. Why? How? The Holy Spirit within you will guide you in that direction. The many pieces of revelation in the Bible, far outweigh the issues you have in your life.

Look at what you know to be WRONG RIGHT NOW; what have you done to clear that up? What have you done to get an understanding of how you MAY be at fault?

I have had many experiences in this thing called life, and I'll tell you that I don't know how I God thought so much of me all those years I was under religion and not relationship. With relationship, I can walk with God continuously and not be worried. With relationship I am encouraged to do what is necessary for what even though it seems strange to others.

Religion tells me to do what has been structured in books, not in spirit. I want my end result to be because my ears to hear and eyes to see were strictly because of the RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


Dana Neal
Coach

Monday, January 05, 2015

Ways to be B.A.D. #5: Know Whose You Are

Everyday you wake up is not by some strength of your own. You are God's child so HE WAKES YOU UP.

You didn't hear the alarm, because you still have your hearing; many times there are people who's alarms go off and they hear nothing. GOD ALLOWS YOU TO HEAR THE ALARM. So this day, now that you are up, realize whose you are, and take full advantage of being thankful for that.

There are times you think God has forgotten about you, but your B.A.D self is walking, talking, thinking, and on this side of life, so you are GOD'S CHILD. Throughout the day, the enemy may try to distract you, or move you to the left, but I"m here to tell you there is opportunity to stay on God's side!

When you take a moment to realize where you are, than you can allow yourself to see things in a different light. In the past few days, I have had to recognized that I have more in me than I did about a year ago; I have to face the challenges of everyday and do what is necessary for my next set of instructions.

I am B.A.D. and I am a child of God.

Whose are you?

Dana Neal
Coach and #bad

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Motherly Wisdom #30: Mom's are secret agents

Yes, Mom's are secret agents. The troublesome part you must accept is that we're WORSE THAN THE MAFIA! (I'm giving away secrets here)



Let me tell you, with all the hood language I can muster: MOM'S HAVE EVERYONE ON SPEED DIAL. Whether its police, school teachers, spies, majors, presidents, etc. Yes, we have it. This Rolodex is not public, but always accessible.


  • When it comes to our kids and their well being, we can make life look a mess, or perfect w/o flinching. 
  • We can sneak on school grounds unnoticed because we have cars at out finger tips (and no they aren't rentals!
  • We can pull money out of an hat because we call in favors
  • We can have our sons and daughters followed...


Okay I"m done. We're secret agents..that's all you're getting.

Dana Neal
Coach and Mama

Thursday, December 25, 2014

Motherly Wisdom #25: Mama Trusts God; Jump on the Bandwagon

A faith filled life is beneficial for you. Why? God controls everything; that's why. Mama trusts GOD.

Walking WITH GOD is better than WALKING WITHOUT HIM. There is too much going on right now in our world to live without him. Even though your life has been questionable, if you are reading this right now, you have a chance to repent and get on the right path. Let me tell you, I wasn't always where I am right now, but I"m thankful that God didn't let go of me. I must also share that walking this walk as a ministry leader has been lonely, but I won't stop walking.

See, as MAMA, I' won't let go of my faith filled, loving relationship with GOD, because I know where I want to end up, when HE CALLS ME HOME. I trust God, because during those times I was hungry, he fed me. During those times, that I was looking for answers, HE SENT THEM. During those times I thought I couldn't make it, HE WAS THERE TO MAKE SURE I DID.

See, you have to TRUST GOD, because you already BELIEVE IN THE DEVIL. What? What's that MAMA DANA? Yes, you already believe in the devil. Everything you do that you know isn't right, IS PROOF THAT YOU KNOW EVIL EXISTS, you just don't realize how GOOD AND BAD come together to test your mental, FAITH BASED capabilities.

So, there you have it. JUMP ON THE BANDWAGON and TRUST GOD TOO!


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Motherly Wisdom #24: There is a reason you don't have keys

Most children have keys to their parents house. Some of them don't; there is a reason for that. What is the reason? TRUST!

Just because she birthed you doesn't mean she trusts you. Why? Somewhere down the line, your LOST YOUR MIND. Lost it. Do you think she wants your empty body roaming around her house? There is no reason why MAMA should give you a set of keys, and then have to lock her bedroom door.

When you run the streets, stay there!

Another reason why you don't have keys, is because you trust everyone OUT THERE more than you RESPECT MAMA IN HERE. Yes there is a reason you don't' have keys. Mama doesn't want just ANYBODY IN HER HOUSE, and she can't trust YOU to respect that.

Now some of you do have keys. Why? Mama can trust you. Think about your life as you were growing up and you can really get an answer on why or why not, in regards to the keys.

There is always a REASON!


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama




Monday, December 22, 2014

Motherly Wisdom #22: I told you so!

There is nothing like stepping back and watching things unfold exactly like you said it would. I mean truly we don't want to say I told you so, but it happens. I watch my children ignore what I say, or just say okay Mom, but then after about 2 or 3 weeks, I find out it happened just like I said. I try  not to laugh, but I just WAIT FOR IT.


Our purpose and plans, as parents, is to teach and hope that our children grasp on to what is necessary for their lives. If they decide that they don't want to do what MAMA says, that's fine. But when they keep getting a bloody nose, because they keep hitting a brick wall, just hand them the towel and keep walking. 

No, I'm not trying to be mean. I'm being honest. The truth shall set you free! If my mother wasn't so mean about the truth, I might have listened as I got older, but that's another lesson on the couch with the LORD. 

None the less, try not to tell them I TOLD YOU SO. Just wait for it! 


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama 

Monday, December 08, 2014

Motherly Wisdom #8: Mama's Got it Together

 When her back is against the wall, you can best believe..... wait, her back isn't ever against the wall. Yes, I said it and that's all! 

Mom's will never let her push you so far back that she hits the wall and doesn't fight back. You will never get that far, so...


over...




Dana Neal
Coach and Mama! 


Monday, December 01, 2014

Motherly Wisdom #1: Stay at Home

Sometimes you need to just stay at home with your kids. Truly! It may be the Christmas season, and you want to go visit others, but sometimes you need to stay at home with your own children. 

They need you to focus on them sometimes, instead of others. Those of us that go from house to house all the time, then we do it excessively around Thanksgiving and Christmas, are the ones that want to be seen. 

It is truly time out for WORRYING ABOUT PEOPLE; stay home from time to time. Take care of your house because it is absolutely necessary. At some point, you have to decide that you are not a teenager and you can't get around as much as you would like. At some point you have to grow up.

Now, I'm really reflecting on the people that are somewhere every weekend, then on Christmas they are in MORE PLACES. Sit down. Stay at home. Let your children get to know you and you them. 


Home is where the heart is; if you aren't home, neither is your HEART!

#catchthat 


Dana Neal
Coach and MAMA!!!

Monday, July 28, 2014

EOAW: 5 Day Breakthrough Challenge

Biblically, the number 5 means grace. When you are looking for a breakthrough, you want the grace to get through and the mercy to be allowed to get through. The challenge you face today is getting in the face of God to OBTAIN THAT GRACE. 
 
Over the next 5 days, starting with tomorrow, you will be asked to use five lifestyle changed resources to get to your breakthrough. This challenge doesn't change the Women Obtaining the Breakthrough Class, you will never get THE FULLNESS of that class in something free.

(NEVER THE LESS....)

This challenge will have you pulling out everything necessary to START THE CLASS. The investment for this challenge is your TIME. (which does cost...) 

Start the challenge, ladies. You are capable, and its your time. 

Coach Dana Enterprises
http://www.coachdana.biz/women.html
Dana Neal 

It's been a while: BUT GOD

This is a quick post to let you know that for two years, God was bringing a foundation back to release a message for the women to go full throttle in their lives.



What do I mean? I mean E.S.S.E.N.C.E.  of a Woman is back.

Not as an event planning business or even a business, but a blog to help women get their breakthrough. Are you ready to get your life on track..WELL COMMENT HALLELUJAH and let's get started!




Coach Dana
www.coachdana.biz/women.html