Motherly Wisdom #13: No Baby Mama/Daddy Drama

Whether you are the Mom or the Dad: Don't be the one causing the drama. 

You have to be better than the other. If she has issues with your new relationship, don't feed into it. If he has issues with your living your life, don't feed into it. 

If she's on welfare, refusing to get a job, don't hold back child support. 
If he's not paying child support don't keep the child from him. 

Drama comes in when you get mad at the other for going on with their lives despite the child, or children you have together. Stop it! 

It should never be about the two of you EVER AGAIN now that your child is born! 



Dana Neal
Coach and Mom

Motherly Wisdom #10: When Mama is DONE

When mama is done..she's done. No question about it.

My children hate, literally hate, the fact that I will cut someone off with the QUICKNESS. When you have played with my heart, my mind, my understanding and my feelings, I'M TRULY DONE WITH YOU. 

I don't have any issues with not seeing you or being in your presence. I don't have any issues with letting you live your life, if your actions and reactions have been negatively affecting mine. I have no problems with being DONE. I can love you and not be with you. 

Sometimes you have to be the parent and do those things. Ladies, if you aren't ready to cut some strings, than realize that you will always be a willing participant in the DOORMAT SOCIETY. 

Revoke your membership today and be DONE! 


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama!