If at first you don't succeed, remember the 4th commandment about honoring your parents.
Okay, this may be a tough pill to swallow, but some of the issues our children have, even those that have fallen at deaths door is because of them not obeying GOD. They don't have to believe in God to realize they are disobeying HIM. Walking in a lie doesn't save anyone, but what has happened, is the walk AWAY FROM a commandment that comes with a promise.
There is no more hand holding. I have said, previously, that you must shake the dust. I have also said that tough love is only tough on the MOTHER, not the child, because we, moms, want to hold on to our children.
We can't hold on! At some point we have to realize that GOD IS IN CONTROL.
Children, if you want to live a long life, you must honor your parents. If you want to run past those bullets like the matrix, think about how you respect, or not, your parents. Remember the 4th commandment, it protects!
Dana Neal
Coach and Mama
God's awesome power and grace are evident in our lives. Women need to grasp their spirituality and obtain the breakthroughs necessary for growth and elevation.
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Friday, December 19, 2014
Sunday, December 14, 2014
Motherly Wisdome #14: Don't Use the Children
Don't use the children against the other parent. The children understand everything at every age; they will really be upset with you later!
As a young mom, I would see other mothers use their children to get what they wanted from the dads. That was manipulation of the utmost, and spiritually, it's witchcraft. A great form of control, because women thought they had the upper hand.
The problem with this is, the dad's got tired of being used. They either took custody or stopped coming around. Then, the kids would be upset with the Moms because they couldn't see their dads.
I was never one to use my children to get at their dad. I don't have time, for what we called, kid games. That's a game you play, that you can't stop playing or you would always have pie on your face.
I like to eat pie, not play with pie.
Children see everything, hear everything, and then they learn how to play the game. Don't let them play it on you when they get older, so stop now!
Don't use YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT.
Dana Neal
Coach and Mom
As a young mom, I would see other mothers use their children to get what they wanted from the dads. That was manipulation of the utmost, and spiritually, it's witchcraft. A great form of control, because women thought they had the upper hand.
The problem with this is, the dad's got tired of being used. They either took custody or stopped coming around. Then, the kids would be upset with the Moms because they couldn't see their dads.
I was never one to use my children to get at their dad. I don't have time, for what we called, kid games. That's a game you play, that you can't stop playing or you would always have pie on your face.
I like to eat pie, not play with pie.
Children see everything, hear everything, and then they learn how to play the game. Don't let them play it on you when they get older, so stop now!
Don't use YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT.
Dana Neal
Coach and Mom
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