Smart, Saved, and Sexy 2: Loving YOU

When I first established the Smart, Saved and Sexy initiative, it was because of the need I had in my life. It was to establish a connection with other women who love themselves, who bury body shaming and excel. 

This year, I'm taking the initiative to another level. I'm reaching out to the women who are still struggling with their identity and wondering what they should about it and who will support them in it.

I'm here to tell the women I understand what the problem is and I know where their emotions lay in their lives, and HOW MESSED UP THAT REALLY IS.

I am here to tell the women they are not alone and we must do something. Actions speak louder than words.

With that:

LOVING YOU

It's time to be naked and unafraid. It is time to tell yourself no matter where you've been you can succeed. It isn't just about business, but your sister (blood or not) who watches your every move in secret, but covers you in prayer.

Loving you isn't just accepting your flaws and telling others you are accepting your flaws, but it's saying, DESPITE MY FLAWS, I can do this. 

For years, MY ENTIRE LIFE before 2015, I thought I was this fat woman. Now, that I am a fat woman and I look back over my photos, I was smaller, just as cute, but smaller. I wasn't really skinny but generally smaller than I am now. My concern, with all of the other women I'm connected with, is what exactly do we see in the mirror? Our own reflection or the reflection of the voices of the people?

This next year, with Smart Saved and Sexy Naked and Unafraid will help shut the mouths of the people and allow the man in the mirror to speak.

I can't do it alone.
I need you.
SSS: Naked and Unafraid:
1. Meetings
2. Speaking events
3. etc

If you are a woman and need help to be NAKED AND UNAFRAID, contact me.
Smart, Saved and Sexy is more than just conversation.

I want to support you, help you, move you, and bring you to the podium to help someone else.

Why are you SO Important?

It's a question that rises in the minds of those who see you speak, write, and never cry. It is in the minds of those whose feet are to small to walk in your shoes. It is the question they whisper behind your back for fear you may CUT THEM WITH YOUR WORDS, in their faces.

WHY ARE YOU SO IMPORTANT? 

Because YOU ARE. 

Your goal is to work towards the results God showed you in visions and dreams; to unlocok the door of the mansion the Lord gave you after being in public housing for so many years.Your goal everyday is to accomplish SOMETHING in order to NEVER QUIT. Yet, the only questions you're hearing in the hallways, from the closet conversations and mystrey texts is:

WHY ARE YOU SO IMPORTANT? 

Tell them becase you are
Esther: stolen from your home in the middle of the night to become queen
Ruth: husband died, didn't return home, and you converted to Christianity.
Mary: carrying destiny

You are the woman no one understands and wants to understand. Let's just talk about her and watch her fail they say. Let's get together, without her, and just GOSSIP.

That is where you will find you are so important. You are in the middle of the conversations you're not even invited to, because they know you have an answer for why you are WHERE YOU ARE, AND WHY YOU DO WHAT YOU DO.

Why are you so important?

SIMPLE: GOD CHOSE YOU

Dana Williamson

www.baddanamarie.com 

Fast Cars and Slow Sex: Why slow sex?

Okay now we're at the day the LORD has made let us rejoice and be glad in it!

SEX, LIES, VIDEOTAPE

The lesson isn't in SLOW SEX..but why is it SEX?

See, I am a minister of the Gospel. (Remember?)
I am one that is always going to tell you what the word says.

When I started this three day series (today is the 3rd day), I shared with you that the lesson was in the title.

SEX...is not what it should be call between A MARRIED MAN AND A WOMAN.

YOU BETTER MAKE LOVE AND MAKE IT FAST OR SLOW.
Your house, your bed, your marriage, is YOUR BUSINESS, but it's not sex. When you become intimate with your husband you are sharing something SPIRITUAL with this man you love. You are exchanging touches, kisses, bodily fluids (be real, not a prude), and you are looking into the eyes of your husband and LOVING ON HIM.
It's LOVE. There is no if ands or buts about it.

What does this have to do with priorties?
If you go to bed with the intent of just having SEX, you already have a planned attack on your spouse and your marriage. Your proiorty is to get it done; slow or not.

Making love is slow. Sex is fast and unemtional.

Fast Cars and Slow sex......change your priorties and LIVE.

Dana Williamson
www.baddanamarie.com

Smart, Saved and Sexy Intiative

What exactly is an initiative? 

in·i·ti·a·tive

noun

1. 1.

   the ability to assess and initiate things independently
2. 2. the power or opportunity to act or take charge before others do.

This is what we're doing at B.A.D Queens of the Round-Table; we are taking action and putting work in to change the mindsets of the women around the world. We are determined to build B.A.D. Queens by helping them see the inside of their lives compared to the outside the world seems to complain about.

The point in the initiative is to establish an ongoing community of encouraging women at a level that isn't as HIGH UP, yes HIGH UP, as the B.A.D. QUEENS of the Round-Table. The Queens at the table are already in the mindset of I have to keep going, I have to do what God says, there isn't anything I can't do and I'm doing it with the help of the other queens.

So how smart, sexy and saved are you to move into this part of the Royal Dining room? How smart, sexy and saved are you to know that no matter your body type, or size, you are the epitome of that next level woman?

There are two levels to the initiative that we want you to consider:

1. Donation of any amount to participate in teleconference calls starting July 12th, 2016 also includes the Triple S report. 


OR

2. Donation of any amount OVER $15 includes the Smart, Sexy, & Save T-shirt, teleconference, Triple S. Report and name included on the B.A.D Queens site as a supporter. 

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Ways to be B.A.D #31: Pray, Again

Here we are at the end; 31 points and days of BEING B.A.D. If you are Blessed, Anointed and Destined you deserve to have a focused set of points and affirmations to help you grow and go.

Ladies, we are not weaklings; we have been mentally victimized to believe we can't do what God ordained us before BIRTH TO DO. My concern at this point is to tell you what I told you int eh beginning and that is to PRAY. Thirty-one days ago we said pray and nothing has changed. God is the beginning and the end of a thing.

Don't forget him and don't leave him out of anything. You need him to direct your path and give you instructions on life and love. Prayer will keep you in close contact with the Father that knows your purpose. He wants you to expound on what He gave you.

Pray and Pray again!

Dana Neal
Coach
www.coachdana.biz
www.baduniversity.com

Ways to be B.A.D. #15: Stay in the Race

No matter what the world looks like; no matter what trials you come across in your life; NO MATTER WHAT THE WHAT IS, stay in the race.


Just like this actor in a move, when the trouble comes you might have to jump the ship you're on, but you not out of the race. 

Your life is an endless, narrow road. The road for the best results in this life and the next is going to be narrow and rough. The problem you have right now, is wondering if you should stay on this road; in this race.

Most people want the easy life, so they stay with the devil, and play his games, but the easy way DOES END. The Bible says we must endure to the end, which means IT AINT EASY.

In order to stay in this race, you better be ready for all that life throws at you. Remember you want the best in heaven, not suffering in hell!


Dana Neal
Coach

Ways to be B.A.D # 11: Realize Your Worth

God said we are fearfully and wonderfully made. If that is so, we are worth more than we THINK WE ARE. As a matter of fact the word also says that we are WORTH MORE THAN RUBIES.




There is nothing wrong with knowing that you are valuable. How will you walk out how valuable you are? Are you ready to accept your worth?

Ladies, we have to be refined and smoothed out, but that doesn't change that you are expensive. You are so expensive, no one can afford you, but God will send someone to honor you, to respect you, and to value you. You are not just a diamond in the rough, you are a ruby. You are blessed anointed and destined. When you figure out your worth, you can walk in your BAD-NESS!


Dana Neal
Coach

Ways to be B.A.D. #3: Study Your Bible

Every time we attend fellowship services, we hear the Pastor say STUDY TO SHOW THYSELF APPROVED; He's talking about the Bible, but some people say WHAT AM I STUDYING? Then they say, what are they studying for?

First, know the scripture completely:

2 Timothy 2:15King James Version (KJV)

15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

This full verse says, a workman (servant), that needet not be ashamed(for the spiritual choices you make), rightly dividing the word of truth(knowing the real from the fake; the lie from the truth). 

See, we only hear part of the verse. We have to know the FULL TRUTH, but that comes from studying. You need to know who you are and you'll find it in the word. 

So what do you as you study? You ask God to give you revelation and clarity of what you are reading. You ask God to show you what to read and why. You put God first, and He'll teach you. You can't study without a teacher. #catchthat 

Dana Neal

Coach

Motivational Speaker

www.coachdana.biz 

Motherly Wisdom #27: Family is a lot more than what MONEY CAN BUY!

Someone taught me years ago what family means. When THAT PERSON left the earth...yeah..well..
I miss her, but I'll say this, I think poor families have the most love in their lives because they didn't have money to cover up their weaknesses. 

Families spent time at home, having birthday parties, or bar-b-ques; they watched football, or movies. 

Neighborhood families spent time together not spent money. When someone is gone, they hurt, not because they didn't do enough, but because they are not longer there. Family is a lot more than WHAT MONEY CAN BUY. 


I like money. I want more of it. I'm truly working my way towards BILLIONAIRE STATUS, but I want family more than ever. I want the support from the people that I think should love me unconditionally. 

Let me be transparent again: for the past 3 Sundays, I have been having family dinner. We would increase in numbers little by little. We only eat and leave (an hour or so), but we come together. I want to be able to have everyone come together and really sit and chat, but its hard. Either way, I want us together. Let us get to know each other. See, FAMILY IS MORE THAN MONEY BUY. I failed, but I'M TRYING NOW. 

I thank God for Esther Russell and what she taught me. Miss you.................


Dana Neal 
Coach and Mama 

Motherly Wisdom #26: Mom loves you more than money

I can share this now, because it is AFTER CHRISTMAS, and a lot of you have received your gifts or received nothing.

As a parent, WE LOVE YOU MORE THAN MONEY. Your lives mean more to us than what you can buy us. Gifts are great, but they are an added addition to what we already have in you, and that is LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST. (please go back and review Motherly Wisdom 24)

Gifts can be stolen and replaced, but life cannot be. Let me help some of you mothers with a little transparency here: MY KIDS AREN'T PERFECT EITHER, but I love them just the same. I MIGHT be a little disappointed in the lives they have chosen to live, but ITS THERE LIFE AND THEY ARE GROWN.

Whew..now that that's over.

Mom loves you more than money. Money is good to have, but not where i takes over your life. Let me tell you that on some point, when you have your own kids, you will realize you can't give them everything that you want to, but you can share with them LOVE......

SO #CATCHTHIS: DON'T COMPLAIN ABOUT WHAT MAMA ISNT' DOING, WHEN SHE'S STILL LOVING YOU!


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama!!

Motherly Wisdom #20: Let Go

The toughest part we go through in loving our children is letting go. We have to take our hands off of our adult children in order to allow GOD TO DO WHAT HE HAS TO DO.

It's hard, because they are our FLESH AND BLOOD, but as saints, OUR FLESH DIES DAILY. When our flesh dies, our wants and needs IN THE FLESH need to die as well.

Let me express to you that the end result of their choices in their lives, have nothing to do with what we taught them, or tried to teach them; it has to do with what their flesh wants.  Our children, and their CURRENT LIVES, are by the choices they have made.

LET GO. Just give it up, and live. Give up the control and let God have HIS WAY. Your insight from today forth should be on letting them learn from the lessons that God has for them. Bless you mothers, as you get the wisdom and let!

It's tough, but necessary


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama!

Motherly Wisdom #11: Family Justification may be False

Friends, family or foe, will try to justify how they treat you, but won't use that same justification rod for you to them. For every side to the story there is the truth. For every thing done out of emotion, there is a broken heart.

When you are wounded you will wound others; you will make them suffer the consequences of what you WON'T DEAL WITH or LET GO OF. 

The problem with being hurt, is, if you don't deal with it , it becomes a thorn in your side; the more you get POKED, the more you want to punch OTHERS. That's isn't good ethics. 

The other part is the justification of your being hurt in order to hurt others is false. You can't love that way. The best part of loving is leaving the pain aside, but the only way to leave the pain aside is face up to how you got hurt and FORGIVING OTHERS. 

Never try to justify hurting someone else! 



Dana Neal
Coach and Mom

Motherly Wisdom #10: When Mama is DONE

When mama is done..she's done. No question about it.

My children hate, literally hate, the fact that I will cut someone off with the QUICKNESS. When you have played with my heart, my mind, my understanding and my feelings, I'M TRULY DONE WITH YOU. 

I don't have any issues with not seeing you or being in your presence. I don't have any issues with letting you live your life, if your actions and reactions have been negatively affecting mine. I have no problems with being DONE. I can love you and not be with you. 

Sometimes you have to be the parent and do those things. Ladies, if you aren't ready to cut some strings, than realize that you will always be a willing participant in the DOORMAT SOCIETY. 

Revoke your membership today and be DONE! 


Dana Neal
Coach and Mama! 

Oh, It's Christmas Time: For the Moms

Good morning Ladies! 

It has been quite a while, but we're determined to get through and press through! 

It has come to my attention that young adults are doing their best to remember their parents by the gifts they purchase. They feel that because its Christmas times, and moms like gifts, that its a great substitute for all the drama they caused all year. 

I don't think that was the real intent on why Jesus was born, but just flow with me here: THE CHILDREN DON'T HAVE THAT CONCEPT JUST RIGHT. It's Christmas time??

I"m still a young mom, even at 43, but I have noticed that my children take a different spin on things, than we did at their age. It is gift giving time, if you are into the commercialism, but the gifts, don't take away from the character and attitude of all year. I have 4 children (3 of my own, and one blended), and each one has their own attitude. Whether loving or emotional, angry or disrespectful, each child still receives love from their parents. (Me and my husband) 

It all goes in what they SAW as they were being raised. 

I think most of feel like, when you teach, you're telling, but as I get older, I see what I taught was what was seen. I'm thankful for being able to take care of them throughout their young lives, but I regret some choices I made that may have left a bad taste in their mouths. Oh yes, ITS CHRISTMAS TIME. 

For years, we didn't have a great Christmas, because of what was going on all year. Time has proven that the effects of that are hidden in our family. For you, if you see or feel the same, realize the error of ALL OF YOUR WAYS, and re-teach the things that are important. Moms, we are the cuddlers, the counselors, the teachers, the menders, etc in the lives of our children. Take some time right now to think over their lives, renew your commitment to them, and bring FAMILY BACK. 

Why? It's CHRISTMAS TIME! 

Dana M. Neal

Coach and Mom

OH WAIT: Starting today we'll have Motherly Wisdom ...we need it! 

Savor the Moment

A few months ago, I created an ebook of most of the choice blogs I wrote when I first became a blogger. I knew nothing about followers, I knew only about sharing what I felt, what I liked and disliked, and where I wanted my life to be. Some of them had a lot of HEART on the inside that my readers could see. This was the beginning stages of my transparency.

Moments with Mrs. D Neal takes you back to those times where I was loved and hated, hurt and cherished. Where my business was just starting to bloom and grow. This ebook will help anyone right now.

Now, an experienced writer, and working on more items to encourage my readers and my clients, I am selling this book and giving away part of A Time to Testify.

A Time to Testify is my testimony on MP3, helping me see how God kept me, but also giving others the hope and reasons why God kept them.

Anyone purchasing Moments with Mrs. D Neal from LULU.com will receive a free mp3 of Time to Testify from Dana Marie. (I need to know the date you ordered it to follow up)

Dana Marie

Have you ever heard the word mixed in with great music? Have you ever needed a word mixed in with soothing sounds? Well, you can get that with Dana Marie's Poetry CD: The Word: Life, Love and Spirit.


The CD is $15 but you can win your own by joining our two week contest. This is a free contest but you must do some work; with everything listed below you can gain points. The more points you have the better your chances of winning. There will also be special giveaway for someone THIS WEEK! So, are you ready? Then get set and GO!!!


1. Join AND invite a friend to the fan page. Send me their name and when they join you get 2 pts. (you can LIKE Dana Marie on the right hand side of this blog)

2. Sign up for our follow up services so you can keep up with events, deals and steals. Visit http://thelockonthedoor.wordpress.com/ blog...3 pts

3. Listen to our 5 Minute Messages at http://www.ustream.tv/mrsceo and make a comment. 1 pt (2 pts if you join and follow)

4. Listen to our daily message at http://www.cinchcast.com/mrsceo and make a comment (1 pt)

(invite your friends to check it out too!!!)

5. Follow on twitter http://www.twitter.com/mrsceo

6. Sign the guest book on the website letting us know what you like most about Dana Marie. http://www.danamarie.info/

That's it. Very easy....GO!

I'm Published..Oh You Knew That

Book signing event like no other!

Author of numerous poetry and e-books, Dana Marie is the epitome of life on fire for God. Throughout many of life’s challenges, Dana Marie has regained her footing, and returned to her first loves; speaking and writing. She is the one that takes it to another level. When the joy of life is interrupted by negative situations, there becomes a need for motivation and encouragement.








Dana Marie offers a compilation of words and rhyme that can help anyone obtain their breakthrough. As a motivational speaker, Dana Marie brings to your heart and soul a clear cut understanding of life's truth!

$20 entrance fee includes presentation by Author (@3:30) and any poetry book of your choice
(see the Amazon widget for the recent release of 'the lock on the door' intimate poetry)

the lock on the door

I took about 3-4 months creating a poetry book that would be strictly for the married. The poems were a part of me and where I wanted things to BE in my marriage. I so believe that marriage takes work and you have to work it (ladies and gentlemen) to keep the flame alive.

Some of these poems really touch the inside of your intimate places. My married freiends...don't get shy now! Get the poetry book; take a day off, get a hotel room with your spouse....and let the emotions..flow...

the lock on the door

This collection of intimate poems helps bring the mind's eye back to the first kiss, the I-do, and the first love. Re-igniting the senses to help rekindle the flame.

Don Savant~~Real Love Book Review

"Real Love"

.....you are the…future bearer of my last name…
the…
future garden…
playing host to my seed…
which i intend to plant
ever so graciously…
with a halo of love surrounding us as you nurture…
and our sons and daughters
grow inside of you…
to be presented to this world…
under the wings of you and i…
committed…
forever remaining in tact…
for both their sake…
ours…
and those who wish to have
what we display
every hour…
of each
and every day…..

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Emotional Adultery...??

I learned something today on the program Love Worth Finding with Dr. Adrian Rogers, God rest his soul. Something about adultery, I do not think I knew.
There are various forms of adultery that we are familiar with in the bible..one of which is physical, the other is mental...but the emotional form of adultery I just learned today. Emotional...

As Dr. Rogers explained it, emotional is when you take what is in the home and share it with someone of the opposite sex. You are basically telling your business to some other party that has an interest in you(you being the man or the woman). I thought to myself "now, that isn't altogether true"...but he went further to explain, what is so simple as sharing your "heart" with someone who understands you can turn into physical adultery. You can do your best to stop it, but then, the flesh jumps in. Now does that have something to do with how spiritually rooted you are or are not? I would think so. You see, I would share my good times and bad times with family and friends. But then I heard a Prophetess Juanita Bynum say not to share your marital information with people, especially women. (being a woman; I never shared with a man, except my dad) She said you just don't take it there, because they can use it against you and take your man or ruin your marriage to their advantage.

Oh yes, Lord..now I"m listening! Duh! Slap on the forehead for me.

There are some things you keep between your spouse and yourself so that it cannot be played on in your emotions. No one knows either of you BETTER than the two that are married together. No one can make you who you are NOT, by the words of someone else. PERIOD. Why one loves the other, or why the other does what they do is a connection that happens between the two married people.

Emotional adultery was very new to me, but I understand the implications on a marriage that it has. I can take this, as Dr. Rogers said, compare it to the bible and find some comparison. The only way to stop adultery, in any form, in its tracks is to recognize that it has been done..and ask for forgiveness and move on. Does not mean you get a pass go free card, but it does mean you can try to start over from that point.

The one thing, these last days, about adultery, is the victim has to decide where do they go from here. Is it worth the starting over or just dealing with life single? Do you move forward under God's grace and try not to backslide? What do you do?

I know the bible gives us good reason to divorce because of adultery, but even then, if the Lord can heal all wounds, and forgive all past mishaps, why shouldn't the spouse? As a saved-married woman, I can say that God forgives and gives people numerous chances to get right. Marriage is not a game; but love makes choices and takes chances. Whether emotional or physical adultery is present or has been present, you have to look to the Lord for your passport to leave.

God bless...