If at first you don't succeed, remember the 4th commandment about honoring your parents.
Okay, this may be a tough pill to swallow, but some of the issues our children have, even those that have fallen at deaths door is because of them not obeying GOD. They don't have to believe in God to realize they are disobeying HIM. Walking in a lie doesn't save anyone, but what has happened, is the walk AWAY FROM a commandment that comes with a promise.
There is no more hand holding. I have said, previously, that you must shake the dust. I have also said that tough love is only tough on the MOTHER, not the child, because we, moms, want to hold on to our children.
We can't hold on! At some point we have to realize that GOD IS IN CONTROL.
Children, if you want to live a long life, you must honor your parents. If you want to run past those bullets like the matrix, think about how you respect, or not, your parents. Remember the 4th commandment, it protects!
Dana Neal
Coach and Mama
God's awesome power and grace are evident in our lives. Women need to grasp their spirituality and obtain the breakthroughs necessary for growth and elevation.
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Showing posts with label issues. Show all posts
Friday, December 19, 2014
Saturday, December 13, 2014
Motherly Wisdom #13: No Baby Mama/Daddy Drama
Whether you are the Mom or the Dad: Don't be the one causing the drama.
You have to be better than the other. If she has issues with your new relationship, don't feed into it. If he has issues with your living your life, don't feed into it.
If she's on welfare, refusing to get a job, don't hold back child support.
If he's not paying child support don't keep the child from him.
Drama comes in when you get mad at the other for going on with their lives despite the child, or children you have together. Stop it!
It should never be about the two of you EVER AGAIN now that your child is born!
Dana Neal
Coach and Mom
You have to be better than the other. If she has issues with your new relationship, don't feed into it. If he has issues with your living your life, don't feed into it.
If she's on welfare, refusing to get a job, don't hold back child support.
If he's not paying child support don't keep the child from him.
Drama comes in when you get mad at the other for going on with their lives despite the child, or children you have together. Stop it!
It should never be about the two of you EVER AGAIN now that your child is born!
Dana Neal
Coach and Mom
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Motherly Wisdom #10: When Mama is DONE
When mama is done..she's done. No question about it.
My children hate, literally hate, the fact that I will cut someone off with the QUICKNESS. When you have played with my heart, my mind, my understanding and my feelings, I'M TRULY DONE WITH YOU.
I don't have any issues with not seeing you or being in your presence. I don't have any issues with letting you live your life, if your actions and reactions have been negatively affecting mine. I have no problems with being DONE. I can love you and not be with you.
Sometimes you have to be the parent and do those things. Ladies, if you aren't ready to cut some strings, than realize that you will always be a willing participant in the DOORMAT SOCIETY.
Revoke your membership today and be DONE!
Dana Neal
Coach and Mama!
My children hate, literally hate, the fact that I will cut someone off with the QUICKNESS. When you have played with my heart, my mind, my understanding and my feelings, I'M TRULY DONE WITH YOU.
I don't have any issues with not seeing you or being in your presence. I don't have any issues with letting you live your life, if your actions and reactions have been negatively affecting mine. I have no problems with being DONE. I can love you and not be with you.
Sometimes you have to be the parent and do those things. Ladies, if you aren't ready to cut some strings, than realize that you will always be a willing participant in the DOORMAT SOCIETY.
Revoke your membership today and be DONE!
Dana Neal
Coach and Mama!
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