the lock on the door

I took about 3-4 months creating a poetry book that would be strictly for the married. The poems were a part of me and where I wanted things to BE in my marriage. I so believe that marriage takes work and you have to work it (ladies and gentlemen) to keep the flame alive.

Some of these poems really touch the inside of your intimate places. My married freiends...don't get shy now! Get the poetry book; take a day off, get a hotel room with your spouse....and let the emotions..flow...

the lock on the door

This collection of intimate poems helps bring the mind's eye back to the first kiss, the I-do, and the first love. Re-igniting the senses to help rekindle the flame.

Marriage Monday-----Calgon, take me away

I am so frustrated with what is going on in the Christian community for our marriages. Wives don't' have enough calgon time.

We need a break away from the nonsense..the drama, the lack of love and intimate response. WE as wives need too. There is so much we can and cannot deal with, even as Christians. It's hard to pray for a husband that you no longer like. It's hard to pray for God to help us, when in our hearts, we aren't sure we want to be helped.

So, we need calgon! We need something to take us away from this spiritually illogical world we live in and give us some peace of mind. I have heard people stress and stress and I have seen families help to tear them down. OH my heavenly father! Wives need something to take them away from this mess and just hear. Marriage is hard, whether you are Christian or not. It's not fun for the wife to do all the work.

With that, what is your answer? What do you think? When you choose to love...love as the bible tells you..why does it seem to be so frustrating? Is it the devil attacking?

I'd like to keep this topic going for next week............if you will lend a hand and talk back!

Blessing your husband!!!

Ladies, let me say something about being sexy. You are only as beautiful as you think you are. Gentlemen, love your wives as you love yourself. Now you know that we need you to say the right thing. Not what we want to hear~~that's not biblical or wise. Ladies we have to learn that. Because those black pants from two years ago that now look grey...you husband told a story...they are not cute!!

But, but, when you slip off those grey/black pants to give to goodwill or the salvation army, take them off for your husband! Be intimate with him. Changing those tight grey pants from a chore to tearing off wrapping paper to a beautiful thing. You!

Bless your husband with your presence. Give him your essence...let him see you all over again, and if he loves you the weight won't matter.

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