Motherly Wisdom #21: I'm just the grandmother, not the mother.

I love my grand children. I do, but at the end of the day/weekend they go home. I'm not the one to come in and change how my daughter decides to raise her kids. 

{side bar: if she does them any wrong, she'll suffer the wrath of God through Mama; WATCH!}

My grandchildren are a blessing. I want to tell me daughter this or that to help keep them safe, and raise them right, but in all actuality, they are her children. Ladies, you have to realize you can't RE-RAISE your kids through your GRANDCHILDREN; you will develop a horrible relationship with your children (men or women). Understand that regardless of whatever you are the grandmother, not the mother. 

Dana Neal

Coach and Mama! 

Motherly Widom #3: Grand-kids see all

 Grand-kids are the epitome of time right now;nothing like their parents at that age. 

What I mean is, when you look at your grandchildren, they aren't acting like their parents did, they are acting like how their parents are teaching them now. 

I look at my grandchildren and I see how they are learning EVERY LITTLE THING IN LIFE right now. Whether its how they eat, or how they argue, how they clean, or how they sleep, I see what my daughter does at home through them. 

It is a blessing to see them catch on to some things so minute, but then again, you want them to just have a life fit for them in their little bodies. 

Keep a close watch on your grand-children; any hurt harm or danger, you will see in their actions and reactions. 


Dana Neal 
Coach and Mama!