This is just a brief statement I wanted to share since I have been on vacation for the past week.
Ladies and gentlemen, if you chose to get married (without the Lord's leading) and are going through various trials and tribulations, you have to decide to STAY married. What I mean is, you might have fallen down and did things the world's way, and now are suffering from the devil's snares, but you have to make a decision to do what's right. You're married under the eyes of the Lord. Decide to do the biblical thing and leave your marriage in his hands.
I have told people, it's not a marriage without some trials. I learned this from Juanita Bynum;a CD she has about the Proverbs 31 woman...you are going to have to go through some things. Especially being a Christian; you will go through a lot of things.
I am not one to say my marriage is perfect, but I am one to say I will fight the good fight despite what the world thinks. As Christians, you have to look at the love you originally had and bring it back into the marriage. You might have to understand that it is going to take time, but time is all you have (long or short). God is looking to you both (if you are saved) to do the right thing according to his word. If only one of you is saved, get 'ta prayin'! Someone has to keep the strength in the marriage, especially if you want it all to work.
There are going to be times where each of you are going to have to take YOU out of the equation and pull it all together. We are in our last days and the last thing you want to hinder you from making it to heaven is not being who you need to be in your marriage.
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. Fro the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Eph. 5:22-23
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ Loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,
Eph 5: 25-27
God is good and will "see" you through all things in your life. Look to him to help you rekindle the spice in your life.