I was watching Tyler Perry's Why did I get married..and one thing stuck out after the "weekend for the married".
Janet Jackson played a psychologist, married to a wonderful man, they had lost their son..long story short, everything that had been behind closed doors for all the couples had come to the light at dinner.
Anyway, after all this, Janet's character told her friends to make a list of the good and bad things in each others' marriages....."if the good outweighs the bad, you have to figure out a way to fix this" meaning fix your marriage if the good is better than the bad.
If it's worth saving......save it. Your business skills, your ministry, all that is as important as your marriage. So start at the beginning.
Find out where the love was lost.
Find out where one of you went wrong.
Find out the choices you have to save your marriage
Find out that praer helps....
If you looking for a continued life with your spouse, find out what you can do to save it....especially if it's work saving.
Respect each other, fall in love again, pray together, communicate..and don't give up.